Now that you have graduated from high school and are preparing for your first year of college dorm life, you probably have a lot of questions and concerns. You may be facing the first time you’ve ever shared a room with someone to whom you’re not related. What if you don’t get along?
For many, this will be an entirely new experience. Chances are that most other freshman in the dorms will have the same fears and concerns. Take time before school starts to prepare yourself. You can begin by reading articles and talking with others about what to expect and how to handle college dorm life.
It’s natural for some homesickness since you will be in a new environment. You may like that there are no more curfews, no constant reminders to do your homework, no questions about where you’re going, or who you’re going to be with. But you’re on your own for what might be the first time in your life. Who’s cooking your meals, making sure your homework gets done and you get up for class on time, or washing your clothes? The freedom with college life can be both a blessing and a curse.
During the college transition, many students find that the biggest hurdle they face is homesickness. Finding an inexpensive way to keep in touch with family and friends can be a great way to smooth the transition into college dorm life. Use your Internet connections in the dorms, e-mail and instant messaging are two ways you can check in with people at home. In addition, to save on long distance phone bills, use your cell phone or look into available VoIP (Voice over Internet Protocol) services.
Sharing your experiences with people from home can help dismiss feelings of isolation and loneliness. You may actually learn that you’re not missing much. However, if feelings of homesickness and sadness persist as a result of college dorm life, make sure you talk to someone about them. A good place to start with is your dorm’s resident advisor.
